Maybe I think this is stupid. Everyone loves bareback. I think there are very few people who want a latex sheet to separate you from all the warm, squishy friction that makes your dick feel good. There is nothing wrong with loving bareback.
It is wrong to live it as a life style. It is wrong to endager yourself, your healthy, your reputation, and your sex or life partner for it. Whats wrong is to live and anti-safe sexual preference like you are being some kind of misguided rebel to not want to play safe ever. Like HIV or some other flavor of crotch rot can’t happen to you.
I have said it before.. when you watch Treasure Island Media.. you are not watching “hot sex” you are watching petri dishes swabbing each other for STD cultures. You are watching someone collecting multiple HIV strains and shortening their life and trying their best to act as the vector that will create HIV-3. You are watching homicide and suicide wrapped up in a dysfunctional mental attitude and it started with an obsession with bareback sex.
I am not saying I am an angel. I am not saying I am some condom and safe-sex advocate. I am saying that I am against the disgusting, vulgar, tacky, nasty ideal that living that you are special enough to get this level of intimacy every time. I am against the fantasy that you think you are special and won’t get and STD or are not spreading them already. You are not special. And your attitude is endangering us all.
I love bareback with my partner. The rare times I do it with others done with careful thought and consideration. I am picky and I always second guess and worry afterwards. I am not proud of them - I enjoy them and I measure my risk with maturity and carefulness. That’s not an excuse. But is better than that complete disregard for safety and being proud of your bareback activity like a badge of honor or “Look, I played in traffic and didn’t get hit today!!” attitude.
I totally second this. As an HIV/STI Test Counselor it amazes me how “bareback sex” (a new label for something that is as old as mankind) has become such a kink and fetish. HUH?!!!
Sex without condoms has been going on for millenia. We didn’t get to 7.5 billion people on the planet cause str8 people played it “safe.” All we are doing by calling it “bareback sex” is, as stated above, proving how stupid, rebellious, and disrespectful we can be against ourselves and against others. All of a sudden it has become taboo. And something to be tried. HUH?!!!
HIV AND STI’S ARE STILL A THING!!! Lest we forget! Safe sex is great and I support people wanting to use condoms if indeed they are seeking to 1- not become pregnant, 2- not catch an STI, or 3 - not wanting to worry about a messy dick. However, I have become more of a proponent of “SMART SEX.”
This requires that you actually negotiate sensibly with your sexual partners. That means “communicate” with your partners, guys! It means finding out your status. It means asking the pertinent questions that will allow you to make better sexual decisions. It’s about taking fucking responsibility.
You have to DO something to get HIV. It’s not gonna just jump out of a bush and get you.
Our community no longer has need of reckless people and reckless behavior!
BE SMART OR GO HOME!